It’s one of the challenges a successful partnership/marriage generally comes along with, yet is rarely addressed before problems arise. “Problems” are defined differently, depending on your own personal situation; your partner’s relationship with their family; how often you’re all engaged; and so on.
Getting along with your partner's family is all about building strong, genuine relationships — and being respectful. Take the time to get to know them individually. Ask about their interests, hobbies, and life experiences. Find common ground and engage in meaningful conversations.
Listening is key; it shows you value their opinions and stories. Be patient and understanding, as different families have their own quirks and issues. Embrace their traditions and rituals with an open mind, even if they're different from your own, as best as you can.
Respect is paramount. Always be courteous, even if disagreements arise. Avoid criticizing or complaining about your partner's family, as it can create tension. Instead, address any concerns you might have privately with your partner. Be wary of doing so; tread lightly, and only bring concerns to your partner’s attention if absolutely necessary, in your opinion, for the health of the relationship.
Always participate in family gatherings and events, showing your commitment to being a part of their lives. Offer your support and help when needed, but don't overstep boundaries. And don’t forget to balance your time between your own family and your partner's!!
Last: be yourself. Authenticity goes a long way toward building trust and acceptance. Over time, your sincerity and efforts will help you forge strong bonds with your partner's family, making family gatherings more enjoyable for everyone.